Talk to Harty
Someone to talk to at 11 p.m.
Say what's on your mind and Harty answers with warmth, not advice you didn't ask for. A good place to put the thought you'd otherwise send to them.
Harty is an AI companion, not a therapist.
Breakup recovery for iPhone
A gentle place to get through the hard hours and find yourself again, with a little heart named Harty beside you.
Coming soon to the App Store. Join the waitlist and we'll tell you the day it opens.
Try it yourself
Three of the No Contact games from the app. Tap, breathe and let it pass.
Inside the app
Use the arrows or swipe through the screens.
Talk to Harty
Say what's on your mind and Harty answers with warmth, not advice you didn't ask for. A good place to put the thought you'd otherwise send to them.
Harty is an AI companion, not a therapist.
No Contact mode
When the pull to text them gets loud, give your hands and your head something else to do until it passes.
Journals
Guided prompts, letters you'll never send and free writing, all on one private shelf. Write a little or a lot.
Guided meditation
Twelve guided meditations for every stage of healing, from missing them to feeling like yourself again.
Insights
Your check-ins and contact patterns turn into gentle reflections. You see how you're really doing, one small pattern at a time.
Growth
Harty moves through five levels as you check in, write and breathe. Your recovery shows up on the home screen, day by day.
Your companion
Harty or Hartina. Same journey, two companions. Pick whoever feels like yours.
Day or night
A bright mode for the morning and a dark one for the long nights. Switch whenever you like.
Your companion
Five levels, one gentle step at a time. Pick a level and a companion to see them move.
Level 1: just getting started.
Questions
Out of Love is made for iPhone and needs iOS 17.6 or later.
No. No Contact mode is one tool among many. Out of Love also helps you name your feelings, write them down, build small habits and breathe through the heavy moments.
Your journal and mood entries are yours. The privacy policy explains exactly what is stored and how chat messages are processed.
No. Harty is an AI companion and not a replacement for a therapist or medical care. If you are in crisis or thinking about hurting yourself, contact local emergency services or a crisis line right away.
Out of Love is for adults aged 18 and over.
Join the waitlist and we'll email you once, when Out of Love is live on the App Store. Nothing else.
One email when Out of Love is live on the App Store. Nothing else.
We'll email you the day Out of Love opens.
The waitlist form opens soon. Until then, email us and we'll add you.